Pricing
Matching is paid. Everything else is free. Here is the honest version.
Founding Annual
$89/year
Web only, time-limited to the first 1,000 members. The price is grandfathered forever — it never goes up while you stay subscribed.
Annual
$129/year
The default plan. Works out to about $10.75 a month.
Monthly
$19.99/month
Month to month, cancel anytime. Annual is deliberately the better deal.
21-day free trial
Every membership starts with a 21-day trial — long enough to actually have conversations, not a 3-day pressure tactic. Cancel before it ends and you pay nothing. Subscriptions auto-renew unless you cancel at least 24 hours before the period ends; manage or cancel any time from your billing settings, the App Store, or Google Play.
Why a hard paywall
Sending likes and opening conversations requires a membership. We say that plainly because it is the honest trade: no ads, no selling your data, no engagement tricks designed to keep you swiping forever. The people you meet here paid to be here for the same reason you did, which is the strongest spam filter a dating app can have.
Always free
- Reading and posting in the community
- The childfree compatibility assessment
- The provider directory
- Chapters and local events
- Joining a metro waitlist
Prices shown are for web purchases via Stripe; in-app purchase prices on iOS and Android differ slightly ($149.99/yr, $24.99/mo) to account for store commission. Refunds for store purchases go through Apple or Google; for web purchases contact support@ihavenokids.com. Full terms in the Terms of Use.