Frequently asked questions

What is IHaveNoKids?+

A dating and community app where "I don't have kids and I don't want them" is the starting point, not a filter you have to explain. You will never have to explain this again.

Is IHaveNoKids free?+

Yes — the community, the compatibility assessment, metro chapters and events, and 3 outbound likes per week cost nothing. The Member subscription adds unlimited likes, seeing who liked you, open conversations, and all discovery filters.

How is IHaveNoKids different from Tinder or Hinge?+

On those apps, child preference is one filter among many — and it often means "maybe." Here, everyone is childfree by design, so the dealbreaker conversation never has to happen.

Can I use IHaveNoKids for non-dating connections?+

Yes. The community, chapters and events are open to anyone childfree who wants friends and people who get it — dating is optional, and community-only accounts are welcome.

How do I delete my account?+

Go to Settings → Deactivation and follow the prompts. Data is removed on deactivation per our privacy policy.